Lost and Gained: Jack

What I've lost:  independence. The ability to do something for myself. Yes I can still wash. Yes I can still dry but no I can’t cook my own meals and walk a few steps without falling.  Spontaneity.  Everything I do has to be planned,prepared and executed with the utmost precision. I can’t just pop to … Continue reading Lost and Gained: Jack

Accessibility: Being Part of The Solution (2/2)

Last weeks post touched upon just how big a problem accessibility is, and how isolating and demoralising it can be for individuals up against it, and how widespread a problem it is in a way you may never have noticed.  This makes having friends who both support you with this and share the anger and … Continue reading Accessibility: Being Part of The Solution (2/2)

Socialising, A Conversation With Friends (3/3)

Hello! To finish off this month’s topic of socialising I (Ross) decided to do something a little different and ‘interview’ Ally and Beth. I asked  them 4(ish) questions and they asked me a couple questions at the end, trying to gain a greater perspective on the issue. I’ve tried to highlight a few of the … Continue reading Socialising, A Conversation With Friends (3/3)

Independence: A Friends Perspective (3/3)

Hello! When I initially sat down to write this post it was a real struggle. I was trying to write about disability and independence from my point of view, as a friend of Ally and Beth’s after travelling with them around Europe for four weeks/spending way too much time with them at home, university, and … Continue reading Independence: A Friends Perspective (3/3)

Independence: Lessons In How To Be Independent (2/3)

Independence is a real buzzword when you’re a young person, to the point where growing up and independence feel synonymous, and it becomes something to aim for. With a disability, however, independence is a bit more complicated, and at times it feels unattainable. Things that are often cited as the pinnacle of independence as a … Continue reading Independence: Lessons In How To Be Independent (2/3)